A talk open to the general public,
Delivered at Congregation Rodeph Shalom, Philadelphia, 2/20/13
Delivered at Congregation Rodeph Shalom, Philadelphia, 2/20/13
A few months ago, I had a conversation
with a gentleman who is about my grandfather’s age. He was telling me about
taking New York State Regents’ Exams as a yeshiva student in the 1940s and how,
in spite of having had to learn geometry on his own because there was no
teacher for that subject in his yeshiva, he earned a 96 out of 100 on the statewide
exam. Proud, he raced home to tell his immigrant father. At this point, I
interrupted his story because I knew exactly where it was going: “Your father
asked you what happened to the other four points, right?” He answered me: “No,
my father asked why I couldn’t get a 100.” Even though I graduated from a
secular public high school in a different millennium from this man, and even
though not only are my parents not immigrants but most of my great-grandparents
were not even immigrants, he and I had a shared, very culturally American
Jewish experience of bringing home not quite good enough really good exam
scores and being interrogated about them. And even though I knew that my
parents were mostly joking when they asked what happened to those last four
points I had failed to earn, the persistence of that question also helped to
instill two important values in me: the importance of succeeding in education,
and the importance of a sort of filial piety — making my parents proud by that
very same success.
It turns out that variations on that
question — Why couldn’t you get a 100?
— go back a lot farther than the Lower East Side in the 1940s. And these
questions are not only asked by American Jews who speak English, like my
parents, or Eastern European Jews speaking Yiddish, like my elderly friend’s
father, but also by Jews whose parents spoke Arabic because they lived in
places whose culture was informed by the Muslim leadership of their lands. As
far back as antiquity, there are examples of sons bringing home the Hellenistic
or Byzantine equivalent of a 96 on the Regents’ Exam and their fathers saying,
“What happened to the other four points?” What I’m going to speak about tonight
is an example of this question that occurs in the Middle Ages, at the end of
the twelfth century. This questions is, in equal measures, an indication of the
value that Jews living in and in exile from Islamic lands placed upon what
today we might call religious and secular types of education, of the importance
of family relationships, and also of an issue that is of special importance to
us as Reform Jews in the twenty-first century: the question of assimilation
into and within a wider non-Jewish culture.